Jeanne Phillips

Jeanne Phillips

LATEST STORIES BY JEANNE PHILLIPS

 

DEAR ABBY: Defeated husband has fallen into a downward spiral

DEAR ABBY: My husband is miserable. Five years ago, he was fired from his job of more than 25 years, and the small issues he had with depression, alcohol and smoking have multiplied exponentially. He sleeps until 10 or 11 a.m., showers only two or three times a week, rarely eats and has a drink in his hand by 4 or 5 p.m. every day. He now suffers from COPD but has no plans to quit smoking. He would never consider therapy.

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December 13, 2024 Relationships
A husband's miserable outlook on life has his partner feeling hopeless on how to help him.

DEAR ABBY: Partner waits for a proposal that may never come

DEAR ABBY: I just turned 29. My partner, “Jeremy,” and I have been together for six years and have talked about getting engaged. He set the timeline for an expectation of when he’d propose early on in our relationship — by “five or 30” (meaning either we’ve been together for five years or he hits 30). Both of those marks hit last year, and I expected him to propose, but it didn’t happen. I am mortified because I keep getting asked by people, “Why not?” I don’t have an answer, except that Jeremy is just not ready.

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December 8, 2024 Relationships
A woman is waiting for her boyfriend to propose.

DEAR ABBY: Husband's sharp tongue cuts deeper than he can admit

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married a long time. Our relationship is stable but rocky. I have suffered from depression since childhood, and I am now trying to manage it. My husband has his own issues. One of them is that he often brings up something he finds “amusing” about my parents. For example, he mocks my dad and the home I grew up in because it wasn’t fancy. This is hurtful.

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December 7, 2024 Relationships
A husband's unfunny comments are a form of passive-aggressive behaviour.
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