Simone Paget

Simone Paget

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SEX FILES: Cruel summer: Why more couples are considering divorce as temperatures rise

When we think of summer, we envision lazy days and playful vacations filled with bright sunshine and carefree energy, but increasingly, it’s becoming the season of breakups. While the first Monday in January has long been known as “Divorce Day” due to the post-holiday surge in splits, new data suggests that more couples are choosing to wait until the weather warms up before officially calling it quits.

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July 13, 2025 Sex Files
Divorce and separation concept. Two golden wedding rings. Dictionary definition.

SEX FILES: Perfection is out. So why are we still faking it?

When I started dating again after my first big breakup, I thought the key to finding love was being as palatable as possible. I devoured online dating advice, carefully curated my profile photos, and enlisted friends to help craft the perfect bio. Desperate to be liked, I said yes to things I usually considered a “hell no.” I agreed to early morning hikes and even went on a 5K “running date,” all in the name of being accommodating.

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June 22, 2025 Sex Files
A new survey from the dating app Hily suggests that men also feel pressured to be perfect.

SEX FILES: Bedroom double life: Why 75% of men keep their kinks secret

The first time a partner admitted their “kink” — that they enjoyed slow, sensual sex with plenty of eye contact — surprised and turned me on. After decades of dating men who bragged about their stamina and ever-readiness, as if they were precision-engineered machines rather than human beings, this kind of vulnerability felt rare and refreshing. However, this isn’t the case for everyone.

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June 15, 2025 Sex Files
Despite living in an era that champions sex positivity, a surprising number of men are still keeping their sexual desires hidden.
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