Simone Paget
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SEX FILES: Love (or lust) without borders -- How to date abroad like a pro
If dating has started to feel like a chore, it might be time for a change of scenery – literally. After spending a week in June dating in Rome, I’m now more convinced than ever that dating abroad is an untapped cheat code for revitalizing your dating life – or, in my case, a palate cleanser after an excruciating breakup.

SEX FILES: How saliva became the latest sexy taboo
The first time a man asked to spit in my mouth, I was 22. When I asked about his fantasy, he didn’t hesitate – the idea of his saliva hitting my tongue was the ultimate turn-on. We’d already had sex and shared plenty of steamy makeouts, but somehow, the idea of his spit crossing that final boundary made me recoil.

SEX FILES: Summer sex mishaps are more common than you think. Here's how to avoid them
When retired diagnostic radiologist Dr. Sam Hill was still a resident, he remembers one of his colleagues coming to him in a panic. They’d come in contact with poison ivy and had a line of unbroken blisters that stretched from the nape of her neck right to her buttocks and down to her heels.

SEX FILES: I spent a week on Tinder in Italy and here's what I learned
My Italian adventure began the moment I stepped out of the Rome airport and fell flat on my face. Cue the handsome stranger who helped me to my feet. It was a classic meet-cute that set the tone for the entire trip.

SEX FILES: Cruel summer: Why more couples are considering divorce as temperatures rise
When we think of summer, we envision lazy days and playful vacations filled with bright sunshine and carefree energy, but increasingly, it’s becoming the season of breakups. While the first Monday in January has long been known as “Divorce Day” due to the post-holiday surge in splits, new data suggests that more couples are choosing to wait until the weather warms up before officially calling it quits.

SEX FILES: Relationship red flags aren't always as they seem
A few weeks ago, I was out for brunch with a group of friends when the conversation naturally turned to dating. My friend Elise started telling us about a man she’d recently met. As she recapped their first, second, and third dates, she said they’d all gone swimmingly. But there was one thing she couldn’t shake: He seemed almost too good at communicating.

SEX FILES: Perfection is out. So why are we still faking it?
When I started dating again after my first big breakup, I thought the key to finding love was being as palatable as possible. I devoured online dating advice, carefully curated my profile photos, and enlisted friends to help craft the perfect bio. Desperate to be liked, I said yes to things I usually considered a “hell no.” I agreed to early morning hikes and even went on a 5K “running date,” all in the name of being accommodating.

SEX FILES: Bedroom double life: Why 75% of men keep their kinks secret
The first time a partner admitted their “kink” — that they enjoyed slow, sensual sex with plenty of eye contact — surprised and turned me on. After decades of dating men who bragged about their stamina and ever-readiness, as if they were precision-engineered machines rather than human beings, this kind of vulnerability felt rare and refreshing. However, this isn’t the case for everyone.
