SEX FILES: When self-improvement turns into self-sabotage
Once upon a time, I dated a man who inspired me to be the best version of myself. To make the relationship advance, I modeled what I perceived to be his good habits. I learned to meditate, I started eating less meat to better align with his vegan diet, I tried breathwork (hated it), explored my spirituality, learned to read Tarot cards (loved it), covered myself in body oil after the shower to make my skin as satin-like as possible, went to therapy and took classes on how to be softer and more open in relationships.
